Where do bad folks go when they die?

I’m not a religious person.

My family was religiously diverse. My mother sent her children to Catholic school (though that was more for show than it was for instilling the values of Jesus). We went to Church for the tuition discount. My mother also used God to justify some of her abuse, which drove me away from religion entirely.

I identify as an atheist, probably more so an agnostic. I think all of those years of Catholic schooling have left imprints on my brain, because there are times when I think about God’s existence and Heaven and Hell and all of that in between.

I also constantly found myself the lone atheist among those around me. At work, most people were Catholic. In my undergrad, I had classes with many severe Christians – and when I say severe, I mean the extremely judgmental Christians that give the rest a bad name. I tended to keep my views to myself because I wasn’t one for religious debates. People can believe what they want to believe.

Whenever someone makes religious comments towards me, I normally let it go, be polite, and move on. But the other day, an acquaintance of mine reached out to me concerning the death of my father. She said that my father would look down on me and be proud.

I felt sick. The thought of a person like my father gaining entrance into Heaven disgusts me. I thought Heaven was supposed to be for the good and just? My father was not good or just. He may have mellowed out later in his life because he became ill, but that does not excuse the person he was before he got sick, and the life he ruined, the heart he shattered, the soul he took away.

If people like him go to Heaven, I would much rather go to Hell. Some sins cannot be forgiven.

Some sins should never be forgiven.

7 thoughts on “Where do bad folks go when they die?

  1. Comments like those, the “he’ll look down on you” is one of the many go to phrases people say when they have no idea what to say. Religious or non-religious, I experienced a lot of people saying the strangest and sometimes offensive things that I genuinely believe they thought would be helpful or in some way comforting.

    That being said, with issues like where people end up – it’s one of those things I don’t like to dwell on. As a spoon-fed Catholic, I understand the comfort of believing loved ones are looking down on you from heaven and that grave enemies of yours will get what they deserve in hell. However, I am quite open minded when it comes to aspects of religion (or lack thereof) and there are some things like the judgement of a person when they die that I just don’t even contemplate because there is no way of knowing.

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  2. Ps. the Bible agrees with you that some sins are not forgivable, especially if the person isn’t sorry and doesn’t act to at least repair the damage in whatever way possible. As a matter of fact, in this case it would be unloving to just hand out forgiveness all willy nilly.

    You don’t have to post this comment or the one above if you don’t want to. Also, I am one of Jehovah’s Witnesses. Though my hope is in the Bible I will NOT fill your comment section with Scriptures and explanations. I hope though, to be able to listen and really hear what you are saying and maybe I can offer a small bit of hope, clarity or a pat on the back.


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